![]() Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even. ![]() Yet, each time we try, it somehow ends worse than before. Our second love can become a cycle, oftentimes one we keep repeating because we think that somehow the ending will be different than before. We think we are making different choices than our first, but in reality we are still making choices out of the need to learn lessons-but we hang on. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation. The second is supposed to be our hard love-the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be.īecause in this type of love, how others view us is more important than how we actually feel. This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake-and probably our families. It’s the idealistic love-the one that seems like the fairy tales we read as children. Often our first is when we are young, in high school even. Yet, it’s also believed that we need each of these loves for a different reason. It’s been said that we really only fall in love with three people in our lifetime. Falling In Love the 1st Time: The Love that Looks Right
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